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How baby boomers can save the world
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What responsibility does the baby boomer generation have to the rest of the world? Its a question all of us in that generation should ask ourselves. - photo by Linda and Richard Eyre
As we mentioned a couple of weeks ago in this column, the baby-boom generation numbers over 80 million Americans who are all now in their 50s and 60s. What responsibility does this generation have to the rest of the world? Its a question all of us in that generation should ask ourselves.

Our parents and grandparents were called the greatest generation because they fought and won World War II and then built the industrialized world. They were the builders and the givers while we, their children, are often thought of as the inheritors and the takers.

And there is no question about it we baby boomers were the recipients of the post-war prosperity and were raised with more privilege, possibility and potential than any previous generation.

The question is, after being the 50- and 60-year beneficiaries of the opportunities and options we inherited, what will we give back to the world? And what will we do with the 20 or 30 extra years that no previous generation has had?

One way to think about it is this: Members of the greatest generation gave up their youth to a war and experienced the reforming of the American dream, then reaped its rewards for the second half of their lives. We boomers may do just the reverse accepting the best that our parents' generation gave us during our first 50 or 60 years, and then using our last 20 or 30 to save our slumping world once again.

Because our world is slumping. Our grandchildren are the first American generation in history threatened with less prosperity than their parents, and our childrens generation the millennials who are now 18 to 33 years old may be collectively the most self-oriented and self-worried and the least family-oriented group ever to come along.

Millennials are the first generation in history to not believe that they will make more money, have more opportunities and live a better life than their parents. They are worried financially and personally and are often inclined to think more about their own needs than about families and relationships. According to the Global Millennial Survey, 46 percent say the most important thing to them is having a good job, compared to only 14 percent who say getting married and 11 percent who say having children. Seventy-four percent of millennials are single (compared with only 25 percent of the same age range a couple of generations ago), and two-thirds of millennials say they have met someone they could marry, yet didnt.

Who is going to change this? As our grandchildren move into this millennial age range, who is going to rescue and guide them? It is not always going to be their parents, who have had to struggle through the great recession and may never know the freedom that many of the grandparents (us) now know. Most of our children, whether they are single parents or two-parent couples, work full-time. Most have neither the time nor the resources that we baby boomers had as young parents, or that we have now.

When some kind of generational overview of history is written decades from now, perhaps what it will show is that the boomer generation saved the millennial generation. We can save them directly when they are our children and grandchildren, and we can save them indirectly when we use the last third of our lives to positively impact some aspect of their world.

At the point of life where earlier generations retired, finishing their parenting and becoming less involved with family and career, our generation can do just the opposite becoming more involved, rescuing, supplementing, consulting children and grandchildren, starting altruistic second careers, and making the last movement of our symphony one of crescendo rather than diminuendo.

It has been said that the reason grandparents often connect so well with grandchildren is because they have a common enemy. Without subscribing to that ridiculous notion, we can say that grandparents often have a type of non-threatening affinity and a certain social distance that allows them to help grandchildren in ways that their parents often cant.

Perhaps our principal legacy will be what we do with the last third of our lives. We are the first generation ever to have the opportunity to deliberately and purposefully use the extra 20 years that no other generation has had to save and build and strengthen our own families and to contribute to the health and welfare of the larger world.

Perhaps we will become the most involved and in-touch grandparents the world has ever known. Perhaps the last movement of our lifes symphony will be devoted to getting our grandchildren on pitch and in tune.